Generally, it may feel hard to visit our friends and family suffering from dementia or Alzheimer’s. You may find it hard to figure out that it doesn’t appear as though you’re being recognized, or believe that your loved one won’t significantly remember that you were even there. Be that as it may, research state that those with dementia can in fact gain few benefits from your visit; they may appreciate being with others and may feel it when you don’t visit as frequently as you used to. However, managing and talking to a loved one suffering from dementia can be pretty easy, particularly if you remember these tips. Go here http://www.carinyasociety.org.au/pages/respite-care.html for more information about respite care.
Don’t expect too much
When you set yourself up to visit your loved one at the nursing home or a disability care center, keep in mind that the chances of your loved one recognizing or remembering you is extremely limited, or could even be showing frustrating or challenging behaviors. Get to know what times of the day he or she may feel better, as more often than not there are sure circumstances where they might be more stressed and on confused, and plan your visit accordingly. Also once you visit, introduce yourself rather than waiting your loved one to recognize you.
Do something they like
Going through old photographs with a dear one is not only a pleasure, but it in addition, can ignite happy memories in those suffering from Alzheimer’s or dementia. Seeming familiar faces can soothe your dear one and this could even encourage them to narrate a sorry behind a photo. If your dear one is suffering from acute dementia or Alzheimer’s, communicating may not be so easy. In such a case, bring a book she or he used to come and read few pages. Or is possible, make a play list of his or her favorite songs and play it out. This can even help the success of disability support services and treatments your loved one is already undergoing.
When trying to have a conversation try to remain respectful and avoid treating them like a child. Always remember to speak clearly and slowly, and repeat yourself if required. Give them their own time to respond and avoid bombarding them with questions all at once. Also try to minimize distraction when you visit. Switch off the TV and turn off the radio. Make sure the surrounding is peaceful and calm. Your loved one may not feel so comfortable in a busy loud room.
Keep in mind, regardless of the possibility that your loved one no longer remembers you, your visit alone can be pleasant and calming.